After my last post, y’all made it pretty clear you wanted me to keep on blogging, so here we are. In two days I’ll be at 13 weeks — the last week of the first trimester. It’s pretty wild to say (write) that — I didn’t ever think I’d make it this far.

My last blog post was mid-November when I was prepping for the transfer. Surprisingly, everything worked as it should — my lining was the right thickness at the check and the transfer went as planned on Dec. 9. Then it was a 10-day wait to the first blood test on Monday, Dec. 19.

I’ve had a few people reach out to ask me what came of the exception request related to being eligible for the fertility clinic’s “baby guarantee,” so I figure it’s time for another update.

My last blog post at the end of January was after the transfer of our second (and last) donor egg embryo had failed. We were mentally, emotionally, and physically exhausted. We had NO IDEA what was coming.

I’ve spent the month of January either prepping for the transfer or doing post-transfer medications to make it stick (and trying unsuccessfully to remain calm, cool, and collected). This morning my husband and I went to the local hospital so I could get the blood test done

The holidays are behind us, which means that it’s time to let all our livers recover, and it’s time for a blog update. As planned, I called the nurse when I got my period in December and finalized the timeline to prep for the transfer.

It’s been a month, so I should probably post an update. The ERA biopsy I did last month actually worked (it’s about time), and the results showed that I need to be on the progesterone medicines — the ones that start after a lining check following two weeks of estrogen and before the transfer — one extra day.

About 6 weeks ago, I posted a blog explaining that the ERA biopsy failed — the lab said there wasn’t enough tissue so I’d have to do it all over again. I waited the month for my next period, and then began the now-familiar routine of 3 estrogen pills in the morning and evening for 13 days …

On Monday, after three extra days on estrogen pills, my lining was finally deemed thick enough to proceed with the next steps in the mock transfer. That meant starting this past Tuesday, I added in the twice daily progesterone suppositories and the every-other-day progesterone shot (once again with circles drawn in sharpies on my butt so my husband had a target for the needle).

I’m not even sure where to start with this update. Two weeks ago I had a hysteroscopy in Jacksonville. This was an outpatient procedure whereby I was sedated with general anesthesia, they put a scope up into my uterus, looked around to make sure everything was kosher, pulled tissue to send out to pathology to make sure there’s no evidence of endometritis (not endometriosis — that’s something different), and also removed any polyps or growths seen while they’re in there.